James 3:5-6
So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell.
We're going to examine the two words in bold. The first word can also be translated "defile," which is how we're going to discuss it. We're going to spend the majority of our time examining the first word and then close with an observation about the second word.
When Jesus came to earth, He declared that no food eaten can make us unclean (Mark 7:14-23). Food no longer defiles us. But, Jesus also told us what does defile us: our tongues.
In Daniel 1:8, the protagonist faithfully "resolved that he would not defile himself with the king's food." We remember how he sought the approval of God for his actions, instead of the approval of man. Let's examine the defilement that Daniel resisted. In the Old Testament, if someone even touched a carcass of a dead animal that was designated as off-limits (see Leviticus 11), that person was "unclean until evening." The offender was required to wash themselves and be separate from the rest of the Israelites until the sun set. They were defiled.
The evil things that arise from our hearts, when spoken, have a similar defiling effect on our mind, body, and soul. These spoken evils destroy our fellowship with God and with others. The evil in our hearts was always there, the tongue neither created nor increased this evil, but the tongue is witness to the evil in our hearts and it speaks from what it knows. Like Jesus said, "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks" (Luke 6:45).
When I awake in the morning and don't properly care for my heart by calling on God in prayer with my whole heart and by listening to and heeding His words in Scripture, my family is torn apart. My hot temper and my frustrated, impatient outbursts at my wife and the rest of my family tear apart the close fellowship I have had with them. It defiles me and my family's actions throughout the day and sets our course toward more defilement and away from Jesus and peace, kindness, righteousness, justice, mercy.
So, what is the solution? We can't just suppress the evil within us! The solution lies in believing Jesus, recognizing our place as sinners dependent upon God’s sovereign grace. Even though we're saved, we're huge sinners and are in constant need of renewed strength (Isaiah 40:31) and fresh mercy (Lamentations 3:23). It is only by the atoning work of Jesus on the cross that we are saved. But, practically, how do we believe Jesus and overcome wicked, evil hearts, and the fiery destruction of our unruly tongues?
Philippians 4:8-9
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me -- practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.
Our culture and our sinful natures inundate us with bad ideology and sinful temptations. As we take these things in, they become part of us, often subconsciously. We must keep our heads above the current of sinful, godless pressures which are seeking to pull us under and asphyxiate the work of the Holy Spirit in our hearts. We do this by filling our hearts to brimming and overflowing with good, Godly things (and then practicing and speaking these things from our heart), like Philippians 4:8-9 said above.
Here are some practical ideas that help me and my family:
- Don't waste time on the elliptical! Read a good story or biography that is Christocentric. Better yet, read a good theology book or the Bible.
- Don't waste commutes! Get the Bible on audio CD or download sermons and burn them onto CD. There are a lot of great, free sermons available.
- Have a time of family Scripture reading every day, or twice a day if your schedule allows, in addition to personal Scripture reading.
- Have family prayer times every day. They don't have to be long. Also have husband/wife prayer times.
- If the family or the parents are beginning to conflict, stop and pray for help together and/or read some Scripture that convicts you in the particular situation and points you to the cross. Jesus suffered so much for us and loves us so much.
Let's examine that second word, in closing. Remember that the passage said that "[our tongue] stain[s] the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life." Jesus is jealous for us and wants our course to be toward him. He wants our loyalty. He wants all of us: our heart, our soul, our mind, our strength. If our strength is analogically a car, then our mind is the driver, making rational decisions toward accomplishing a goal. Our heart would then be the purpose, the destination, the plan. Proverbs 16:9 says that "the heart of man plans his way, but the LORD establishes his steps" (emphasis added). As we speak the evil within our hearts, it hardens our hearts further and sets our course away from communion with Jesus and fellowship with other Christians. But, as we fill our hearts with good things, we will find our purposes and our plans in life to be more toward Jesus and less toward sin! For, that is the goal and desire of our lives: to be made into the likeness and image of our Savior, who loves us so much that he died so that we might be given his righteousness and made acceptable to God.
I was inspired to write this after watching this short dramatization of James 3 from the 2008 Desiring God conference, which really convicted me.